UK Family Court Self-Representation Starter Pack - Child Arrangement Proceedings

Feel more prepared, organised, and confident when representing yourself in the UK Family Court.

Written by Dave Barma & Gemma Bailey, experienced Professional McKenzie Friends who have supported hundreds of parents through Child Arrangement Proceedings.

Practical, calm guidance for parents representing themselves — no legal jargon, no scare tactics.

What is a Professional McKenzie Friend?

A Professional McKenzie Friend supports parents who represent themselves in Family Court.

They help parents:

• Understand what the court expects
• Organise documents and evidence clearly
• Prepare position statements
• Stay calm, focused, and child-centred during proceedings

Professional McKenzie Friends do not act as solicitors or provide legal representation. Instead, they support parents in presenting their own case clearly and appropriately.

This Starter Pack is written by Professional McKenzie Friends with real, hands-on courtroom experience, based on what actually helps parents in Child Arrangement Proceedings.

Why you can trust this guide

Dave and Gemma regularly sit beside parents in real Family Court hearings. They see first-hand what helps parents communicate clearly and what can unintentionally cause problems or delay.

This guide is based on that practical experience and focuses on how parents are expected to prepare and present themselves when representing themselves.

What parents say after using the guide

“This guide helped me feel calm and completely prepared for my hearing. I finally understood what the court expected from me.”
— Parent representing themselves in UK Family Court

“I felt organised and knew exactly what to do before my hearing.”
— Parent in UK Family Court

When this guide helps most

Parents often use this Starter Pack when they are:

• Preparing documents or statements
• Organising evidence
• Getting ready for Cafcass involvement
• Unsure what will happen at a hearing
• Worried about saying the wrong thing in court

Many parents return to the guide between court dates to regain clarity and confidence.

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✔️ 106-page Starter Pack with clear explanations, templates, and checklists
✔️ Written by Professional McKenzie Friends with real-world experience
✔️ FREE 30-minute telephone consultation with Dave or Gemma
✔️ Ongoing peer and professional support options provided after purchase
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Designed to reduce risk, not increase it

Many parents worry about:

• Saying the wrong thing
• Submitting the wrong documents
• Escalating conflict unintentionally

This Starter Pack is designed to reduce those risks. The guidance is calm, child-focused, and aligned with what the Family Court expects from parents representing themselves.

Why this Starter Pack exists

Many parents spend hundreds or even thousands of pounds on solicitor advice during Child Arrangement Proceedings.

This Starter Pack provides a clear, affordable foundation, helping you prepare confidently and understand what the court expects — without unnecessary legal costs.

Want to explore the topic first?

We also offer a short, free guide:

“5 Costly Mistakes Parents Make When Representing Themselves (And How to Avoid Them)”

It explains common mistakes parents unknowingly make in Child Arrangement Proceedings and why those mistakes can cause unnecessary stress, delay, or difficulty with the court.

Many parents read the free guide first, then return to this Starter Pack when they’re ready for step-by-step guidance, practical templates, and personalised support.

👉 You can access the free guide here:
https://mckenziefriend.gumroad.com/l/lddzpe

Is this guide right for you?

This Starter Pack is suitable if you are:

✔️ Representing yourself in Child Arrangement Proceedings
✔️ New to the Family Court process
✔️ Feeling overwhelmed or unsure what to expect
✔️ Wanting practical, plain-English guidance
✔️ Focused on staying calm, organised, and child-centred

No legal background is required.

What’s inside the Starter Pack

Essential Guidance
Clear explanations of the key stages of Child Arrangement Proceedings, written in plain English.

Ready-to-Use Templates
Position statements, evidence summaries, communication logs, and more — ready to adapt to your case.

Checklists
Step-by-step checklists to help you stay organised and avoid common mistakes.

Expert Tips
Guidance on communicating with Cafcass, presenting yourself clearly in hearings, and managing stress.

Clear Legal Boundaries
An explanation of your role as a Litigant in Person, with appropriate disclaimers and context.

Free consultation included

Every purchase includes a FREE 30-minute telephone consultation with Dave or Gemma.

Contact details are provided after purchase so you can book support when it’s most helpful.

Ongoing support (after purchase)

After purchasing, you’ll be guided towards optional ongoing support, including access to a supportive Facebook community of parents at similar stages of Child Arrangement Proceedings.

Details are provided after purchase.

Who this guide is NOT for

This Starter Pack may not be suitable if you:

✖️ Are looking for guaranteed outcomes
✖️ Need full legal representation from a solicitor
✖️ Are not involved in Child Arrangement Proceedings
✖️ Expect one document to cover every possible scenario

Refund reassurance

We understand that starting Family Court proceedings is stressful.

If, after reviewing the guide, you genuinely feel it isn’t right for your situation, Gumroad’s standard refund process applies.

Take your first step with confidence

Get instant access to practical tools, experienced guidance, and supportive resources to help you prepare calmly and confidently for Family Court.

GET ACCESS NOW – £29.99 (INC VAT)

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Important information

This Starter Pack is designed to help parents feel clearer, more prepared, and more confident when representing themselves in Child Arrangement Proceedings. It does not replace legal advice or provide guaranteed outcomes. For tailored one-to-one support, you are welcome to contact Dave or Gemma directly.